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October 2 2022

What is Erotic Massage?

Massages are a popular way of relaxing, reviving and healing the human body through physical contact.

There are many types and techniques of massage, including Thai Massage, Swedish Massage, Deep Tissue Massage and Shiatsu Massage. Generally, there is nothing sexual about these massages.

However, massages can also have a sexual component. These types of massages can be called by many different terms, but ultimately refer to the same thing:

Erotic massage
Sensual massage
Sexual massage
Adult massage
Tantric massage
Happy-ending massage

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What are sensual massages?

Normal vs erotic massages

What happens during?

What do they feel like?

Types of erotic massage

Massage parlors

Are sexual massages legal?

Benefits of erotic massage

Erotic massage tips

What are adult sensual massages?

Also known as erotic massages, adult sensual massages are often based around Tantra, an Indian practice that dates back more than 5,000 years. Although often synonymous with sex, Tantra is really about intense human connection between two people. Hindus believe there is a clear difference between sexual and sensual. In Sanskrit, the word Tantra means ‘woven together’.

Adult sensual massages use traditional massage techniques alongside more intimate and arousing techniques, to focus simultaneously on both muscle relaxation and sexual excitement.

There are many types of erotic massages, however they all share the commonality of building up sexual energy through intimate touch throughout the massage, with the aim of finishing with the recipient having an intense orgasm.

For the majority of erotic massages, the receiver does not physically interact with the giver. The receiver is expected to surrender their body to the giver, allowing the sexual energy to build and simply to enjoy the sensations, feelings and emotions that comes with it.

Sensual massages are about enhancing feelings of well-being, often associated with deep relaxation, and can help the receiver resolve many psychological issues. For this reason, erotic massages are sometimes used in therapy, especially to help overcome sexual trauma, erectile disfunction, or relationship issues.

What is the difference between a normal massage and an erotic massage?

Normal Massage

In a normal massage, intimate areas such as the groin area are not touched, unless the receiver needs specific work or stretching there and requests it. The genitals are never included in a professional therapeutic massage session.

Massages can be both for healing the body, such as a physiotherapist helping to stimulate injured muscles so they work properly again, or for pleasure by indulging the recipient in a state of relaxation.

In a normal massage the masseuse or masseur will usually be fully clothed. The recipient may have their intimate areas covered by underwear or a towel.

Erotic Massage

Erotic massages focus on integrating the techniques and benefits of normal massages, with physical touch to create sexual arousal and pleasure the recipient to achieve orgasm.

Erotic massages usually consist of a happy-ending, the main sexual act of the massage. This is usually a hand-job, but could also include fingering, oral sex or even sexual intercourse.

In the majority of erotic massages the masseuse will either be in lingerie, a bikini, or completely naked. The recipient will be naked.

Erotic body to body massages are extremely relaxing and can help remove stress.

What happens during a sexual massage?

An erotic massage usually starts with a shower, either alone or with the masseuse. This not only ensures you are clean and hygienic for your masseuse, who will be rubbing her naked body over yours, but it also helps you to feel fresh and remove any negative emotions before the session.

You will likely be asked to lie face down on a bed, or similar platform, naked without any towels covering you. The masseuse, who will also be completely naked, will then start to slowly massage you.

Massage oil will likely be used as she uses professional techniques to ensure your complete relaxation. Once relaxed, she’ll cover her breasts in oil and rub her whole body over yours. In many erotic massage parlors there will be mirrors so you can watch what is happening.

The masseuse will then ask you to turn over onto your back. She will then continue the massage on your front, using her breasts to massage your torso. Her hands will eventually reach down to your groin, as she uses oils to help her lovingly stroke your penis.

You will likely experience two conflicting feelings – extreme relaxation and extreme excitement. As the masseuse continues stroking you, using her body, hands and oils to enhance your senses, the experience ends in a powerful orgasm.

What do erotic massages feel like?

A sensual massage that focuses on the whole body, including your intimate areas, gives an incredible head-to-toe relaxation experience that’s completely unique. The masseuse’s body weight is used on both your back and front, putting significant pressure on your joints.

When done correctly, erotic massages completely relax every muscle in your body, releasing all stress and tension. The sight of the beautiful naked masseuse stimulates the mind, whilst the skin-on-skin contact creates a warmth of connection to the masseuse and heightens your senses as you are overwhelmed by feelings.

The build up in a sensual massage is not only physical but also mental. A good erotic masseuse knows how to keep you on edge, ensuring you only ejaculate at the end of the massage. You really do experience complete release with an orgasm which is unparalleled to sexual intercourse.

The constant mental fight between relaxation and sexual stimulation results in a thrilling experience which will have you addicted and coming back for more.

What are the different types of erotic massage?

The term ‘erotic massage’ can encapsulate many things, from a structured massage with a professional, to sexual foreplay with a partner. However, here are 8 of the most common different types of adult erotic massage:

Body to Body Massage

The most popular type of erotic massage is the body to body massage, also known as tantra massage. The masseuse will use her naked body to massage the recipient, including spreading the massage oil with her breasts. The massage will usually end in a hand-job to completion.

Soapy Massage

Popular in Asian countries such as Thailand and Japan, the recipient surrenders himself to the masseuse who proceeds to bathe him, usually in a large bath tub with plenty of bubbles, before using her whole body to massage him. Depending on the location and venue, this massage type is likely to end in sexual intercourse.

Nuru Massage

Similar to the body-to-body massage, except instead of using massage oils on the recipient, a very slippery substance called Nuru Gel is used. Both the receiver and giver cover themselves in the Nuru Gel, which eliminates any friction, allowing the masseuse to easily slide over every inch of the recipient.

Lingam Massage

A lingam massage purely focuses on the penis, testicles and perineum (the area between the anus and genitals). Lingam massages are designed to be so much more than simply a handjob, but rather a session of penis worship. The penis will be massaged and stroked to bring the man multiple waves of pleasure throughout, ending in an intense orgasm.

Mutual Massage

Whilst most tantric massages insist the recipient does not actively participate in the massage, but rather relaxes and enjoys the sensations, a mutual massage encourages participation. In a mutual massage you can also massage the masseuse.

Spanish Massage

The Spanish Massage is similar to the body-to-body erotic massage, but instead of the masseuse giving the recipient a hand-job to finish, the masseuse uses her breasts to stimulate the penis, making the male recipient ejaculate between the lady’s breasts.

Greek Massage

In an erotic Greek Massage the masseuse will perform an intense massage on the recipient’s bottom. If desired, the masseuse will insert a finger and/or dildo into your anus.

Four Hand Massage

A four hand massage is usually a body to body massage that’s performed by two ladies at once. With four hands on the recipient’s body at once, all parts of the body can be touched at once, putting the man’s senses into overdrive and bringing significant pleasure.

Erotic massages are often performed by completely naked sexy women.

What are erotic massage parlors like?

Have you ever wondered what it’s like inside an erotic massage parlor which specially caters towards adult sexual services?

The atmosphere of a massage shop plays an extremely important role in an erotic massage session, ensuring the client is completely relaxed. Therefore massage parlors are often very luxurious inside, with dim lighting, comfortable seating, incense, and soft sensual music playing throughout.

Everything about an erotic massage parlor is to immerse the client in a world of relaxation, ensuring that he is free to only focus on his senses which are being stimulated during the massage.

In many adult massage parlors, the clients are kept away from each other for discretion. For this reason, it can be required to make appointments and/or wait outside until a member of staff can welcome you into the premises. Waiting rooms are often private for each individual client. The masseuse is usually clothed, or wrapped in a towel, until the session has been discussed, paid for and officially starts.

Are sexual massage services legal?

Whether or not a sexual massage service is legal depends on country’s prostitution laws.

Sexual massages are legal in some countries, such as Germany. In these countries businesses can openly advertise their services and make it clear what clients can expect.

Sexual massages are illegal in some countries, such as the United States. This is because some prostitution laws state that touching genitals for money is illegal, which would therefore include erotic massage services. In these countries massage parlors cannot advertise sexual services, however happy-ending massages are still requested and might be accepted at certain venues.

Sexual massages are a legal grey area in many other countries, such as the United Kingdom. Erotic massage services in legal grey area countries will not openly advertise sexual services, however they may advertise tantric massage services which is essentially the same thing. Tantric massage is used to circumvent legal repercussions, because it can be argued that tantra is not a sexual massage but a sensual massage, and also includes breathing exercises, mandala visualizations and spiritual education.

In the vast majority of places, there is no official licensing to become a qualified tantric massage practitioner, meaning service quality can be hit and miss. When searching for an erotic massage service outside of a legal country you may have a bad experience with no option of recourse. Sexual massage services in legal countries are supported by reputation, permanent staff and a loyal customer base, which can be a better bet for people.

What are the benefits of erotic massage?

A major benefit of having an erotic massage is increased mood. To be put in a state of deep relaxation whilst your achy muscles are massaged, and then being sexually caressed by a beautiful naked lady which results in a prolonged and intense orgasm… how could you be sad after that?!

Another benefit of erotic massages, and a reason they are used as a specialist form of therapy, is enhancing sexual function and helping people to resolve their intimacy issues.

5 tips for getting an erotic massage

1. Be Clean

An erotic massage is highly intimate and a masseuse will be using her naked body to relax yours. She will be focusing on every part of you, every little crook, from your toes to your neck. Therefore it’s important to be considerate and ensure you are totally clean and hygienic, beyond the shower you’ll receive at the start of the session. It is not only embarrassing if the lady is disgusted by you, but could also result in service being declined.

Clip and clean your finger nails
Clip and clean your toe nails
Clean your teeth
Check your bum’s totally clean
Properly clean your penis

2. Shave!

Erotic massages use oils to help enhance the massage and ensure the lady can slip over you without any problems. However, massage oil can be soaked up by body hair. If you are particularly hairy you should consider shaving to make the experience more pleasurable for yourself. You will likely not have a very good time if there is physical friction between you and the masseuse.

It can also be a good idea to trim your pubic hair if you have a particularly wild bush. Your masseuse will be spending a lot of focus there, and by making it more pleasant for her she’ll be more inclined to do a good job.

3. Eat First

There’s nothing less romantic than your stomach growling in a quiet room when a beautiful naked lady is giving you a massage or hand-job. Making sure you have eaten is a good way to prevent any unwanted noises. Not being hungry also ensures you can focus purely on the massage.

If you get thirsty before or during your massage it’s very likely the venue will provide you with a complimentary drink, just ask.

4. Turn Off Your Phone

You will likely remove and keep your clothes in the same room as your massage. It is therefore recommended to turn off your phone during your session – nothing worse than your phone ringing when you’re deep in a relaxing trance.

5. Bring Cash

Most erotic massage parlors and masseuses will often prefer cash payments. Where bank cards are accepted there may be additional charges. Not using bank cards also helps with client discretion, which is usually a major concern of users of adult massage services.

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September 29 2022

What are FKK Sauna Clubs?

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There is often lots of confusion around FKK Sauna Clubs, especially with tourists.

One of the main reasons for confusion is the use of the term ‘FKK’ and whether it relates to sex and legal brothels, or is simply about innocent and celebrated public nudity.

FKK Sauna Clubs are brothels with wellness facilities for the visitors, including saunas. The prostitutes in these clubs are always naked, whereas men often wear towels or robes.

It can be difficult to understand the nuances involved, but it’s important to be aware so you do not make an embarrassing mistake.

FKK Sauna Clubs are mostly situated in Germany, however they can also be found in Austria, the Netherlands, Switzerland and Czech Republic.

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What is FKK?

FKK & FKK Sauna Club differences

What to expect at FKK clubs

Why do people visit FKK clubs?

Who visits FKK clubs?

What’s the cost?

Tips for visiting FKK

Best FKK Sauna Clubs

What is FKK?

FKK, or Freikörperkultur, is a German word meaning ‘Free Body Culture’.

Free Body Culture is basically the same as naturism, meaning you like to spend your time nude, sometimes in public. However, in Germany it is considered as more of a movement and part of everyday life, which is strongly embedded in the country’s culture.

At its core, FKK has no association with sex. The FKK movement is based around the assertion that there is no shame about the naked human body.

There are many FKK beaches and resorts across Germany. It is estimated that between 8 and 12 million Germans actively engage in nudism.

What’s the difference between FKK and FKK Sauna Clubs?

FKK on its own is likely to be referring to a standard naturist venue, where visitors can enjoy their time in the nude. These include private resorts, campsites, or beach locations. There is nothing sexual about these venues and they will often attract people of all ages.

An FKK Sauna Club is a type of brothel, where paid sex takes place. In many ways, it is wrong of these venues to use the Free Body Culture terminology, as the venues are less about enjoying public nudity and much more about getting laid.

FKK Sauna Clubs may be referred to as simply ‘FKK’ or even ‘FKK Club’. Whilst public nudity is celebrated in Germany, public sex is frowned upon. It is therefore very important to be careful you know what to expect.

What to expect at an FKK Sauna Club

An FKK Sauna Club is the same as an FKK Sex Club, so you’ll want to be prepared for a day of X-rated adult entertainment.

Upon arrival you will be asked to pay an entrance fee. This fee will entitle you to use the facilities at the club, including the sauna. Most FKK Sauna Clubs will also have at least one swimming pool and a bar which serves unlimited free soft drinks. The entrance ticket usually provides you with free meals whilst you’re still at the club too.

There will always be a changing room where visitors can lock their clothes and belongings away, have a shower and wear either a towel or a robe.

You can then enjoy the facilities on offer, or speak to any of the ladies walking around who will either be completely naked or topless. If there’s a special event happening the ladies may be in sexy costumes or lingerie. The ladies are not included in the entrance price and you will need to negotiate with them individually.

Simply find a lady you want to have sex with and approach her. In my experience, almost all the sex workers in German and Austrian FKK clubs speak great English and there is rarely a problem with communication. FKK Sex Clubs have bedrooms on-site, meaning you’ll have somewhere comfortable and private to have fun. Sexual activity is usually done on fresh towels for cleanliness, and the ladies will provide condoms and lube.

FKK Sauna Clubs will allow you to stay from opening to closing time, meaning you can enjoy multiple girls within a single day… I had sex with 5 girls in 1 day at FKK Artemis.

Ladies at Wellcum FKK in Austria. Image from venue website: https://wellcum.at

Why do people visit FKK Sex Clubs?

With prostitution fully legalized, Germany and Austria are full of brothels. It is simple to visit a bordello, pay a lady a fee for a set amount of time, have sex, and leave.

FKK Sex Clubs are technically brothels, but there is a significant difference in the visitor’s experience.

An FKK club wants visitors to pay a high entrance fee, and then keep them there for as long as possible so they purchase expensive alcohol and enjoy the company of the ladies. Whilst FKK clubs do not take a cut of ladies earnings, if visitors do not buy sexual services then the ladies may leave for other venues. It’s therefore vital the premises are comfortable, enjoyable and erotic.

Men visit FKK Sex Clubs because they can live out a fantasy experience. Designed as a spa for men, visitors can relax and escape daily reality. Being able to look at and interact with beautiful naked girls is a unique and valuable experience for most men.

Unlike a standard brothel where you are only introduced to a few available ladies, or an escort agency where photos are blatantly edited, FKK clubs allow men to view up to 100 potential sex partners at once in the flesh before making any decisions.

Being able to find your perfect fantasy girl, due to the many sizes, shapes, ages and nationalities available in German FKK sex clubs, is a big selling point for visitors.

With wellness facilities there is no need to rush. Men can have sex with numerous ladies in a single day, due to being able to relax and recover between sessions.

It is also easy to live out sexual fantasies at FKK sauna clubs, such as public sex, threesomes or trying sex positions which are not offered by girlfriends or wives.

What type of people visit FKK Saunas?

Who uses FKK sauna clubs was always a question that intrigued me before I found out myself.

Visitors of FKK Sex Clubs in Germany and Austria are of all ages, sizes, ethnicities and backgrounds.

The venue you visit will have an impact on the visitor demographic. For example, at Artemis in Berlin you are more likely to find younger men in their 20s and 30s, whereas at Mainhattan in Frankfurt the clientele are mostly in their 60s and 70s.

Men from around the world, of all skin colors, religion and wealth, travel to enjoy legal prostitution with beautiful women in Germany’s sex clubs.

What you look like does not matter when it comes to visiting an FKK sauna club. However, sex workers can and will refuse service to men they believe are unhygienic. You should try to make an effort in your looks, including trimming thick pubic hair (especially if expecting oral) and clipping nails. Having showers to ensure you do not smell bad is also important.

In FKKs you will not be judged, as everyone is very liberal in their views towards paid sex. Everyone is there to relax and have a good time, including the ladies. You do not need a six pack or large penis to make the ladies want to have sex with you. There is no need to feel self conscious.

Personal questions are unlikely to be asked as discretion is always respected. For this reason, some visitors may have girlfriends or wives, but this does not matter at the FKK Sauna Club.

How much do FKK Sauna Clubs cost?

If you are looking for cheap sex in Germany then going to an FKK Sex Club is probably not the best answer. FKK Sauna Clubs are not cheap.

If you are looking for quick, cheap and legal prostitution in Germany then you could consider laufhaus brothels, where oral and sex costs an average of just €50.

The average man is likely to spend €250 – €350 per visit to an FKK Sauna Club.

You should think of FKK clubs as an experience, a luxury which you can spend your money on to create memories which could last a lifetime.

When considering the price of FKK Sauna Clubs you need to consider four things: the entrance fee, alcohol, wellness extras, and the girls. It is up to your personal preference how much you spend.

Entrance Fee: €40 – €90 per day

Alcohol: €5 – €10 per drink

Wellness Extras: €25 – €75 per massage

Sex: €50 – €150+ per session

It’s also important to consider the travel costs involved in getting to the FKK club. Many venues are outside of city centres, meaning you may have to rent a car or taxi to get there.

Tips for visiting an FKK Sauna Club

1. Be respectful

Be polite, kind and respectful of the ladies and staff at FKK Sauna Clubs. Treat them as humans, not whores or robots. Be aware that the girls are there to make money, so allow them to pursue other customers if you are not paying for her time. Be mindful to clear up after yourself, such as placing used towels in the correct laundry baskets. For obvious reasons, phones are strictly prohibited from FKK premises and must be kept in lockers.

2. Always be hygienic

It’s an unwritten rule that customers of FKK clubs should shower before and after each sexual interaction, ensuring they are completely clean and fresh at all times. It’s also important to be presentable, which could include trimming pubic hair and clipping nails. You don’t have to be attractive to have fun in FKK sauna clubs, but you should make an effort.

3. Play time only at pay time

Whilst touching the girls may be absolutely fine when you are in a session with them, this does automatically not give you permission to touch before or after the session. Unless a girl invites you touch her when not in a session, it is usually best not to. If in doubt, ask… consent is sexy!

4. No means No

Every working girl at an FKK club has the right to refuse service without giving a reason. If a lady says no you should respect this, or expect to be thrown out of the club. This goes both ways – if you tell a girl no at the club she should respect that.

5. Safe sex only

Condoms are provided by the sex workers and the use of such is a non-negotiable for penetrative sex. Never ask for bareback sex at a regulated FKK sex club – doing so could result in you getting kicked out of the club without refund. The ladies at FKK brothels respect their health, and you should respect yours too.

What are the best FKK Sauna Clubs?

When choosing the right FKK club for you, it’s important to consider what you want.

Some clubs are big and busy, where the ladies will approach you to request a private session. Other clubs are much smaller and intimate, where men are expected to approach ladies and not vice-versa. There are differences in cost, in number of sex workers, and facilities are different.

This is not an exhaustive list, and is ultimately down to personal preference, but here is a selection of top quality FKK Sauna Clubs in Germany and Austria:

Colosseum – Augsburg, Germany

Designed to resemble a roman colosseum, this FKK places you in an erotic fantasy world. With a large number of absolutely gorgeous models for your pleasure, you will not be disappointed visiting Colosseum.

The facilities at Colosseum are fantastic, including an incredible indoor swimming pool, whirlpool, and massages by accredited staff from just €25 extra.

Gubener Straße 13, 86156 Augsburg, Bavaria, Germany

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The ladies at FKK Colosseum, a roman themed sex club in Augsburg, Germany. Image from website.

Artemis – Berlin, Germany

Artemis is one of the largest FKK brothels in Germany, and probably the most famous. It attracts stunning prostitutes from around the world to entertain locals, businessmen and sex tourists.

The wellness facilities at FKK Artemis are top-notch and it is easy to get to with Berlin’s public transport.

Read my full review about Artemis, including details on what to expect when visiting.

Halenseestraße 32-36, 10711 Berlin, Germany

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Mainhattan – Frankfurt, Germany

A simple tram ride from the main station in Frankfurt, FKK Mainhattan is a wonderful and enjoyable experience that you mustn’t miss!

A smaller club, it has an intimate feel with a chill vibe. The girls are unlikely to approach you, but if they do they are guaranteed to not be pushy (unlike in other clubs). There’s usually 20-30 girls working at a time, the majority of whom are Romanians in their 20s and 30s.

If you’re a non-smoker you’ll appreciate that smoking is prohibited in the majority of the building. The buffet meals are fantastic and there’s even a bbq in the summer.

Read my full review of FKK Mainhattan to know exactly what to expect!

Schielestraße 45, 60314 Frankfurt am Main, Germany

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FKK World – Pohlheim, Germany

The FKK World is a well-known club amongst locals and tourists alike. With luxurious interior, which resembles a classy strip club, the space is made for male entertainment.

Entrance prices are sometimes advertised from as little as €15, which can bring your FKK trip costs down considerably. It’s important to check with reception what the entrance prices do and do not include.

Am Pfahlgraben 14, 35415 Pohlheim, Germany

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The main bar at FKK World, an FKK Sauna Club in Hesse, Germany. Image from website.

Club Bernd – Hennef, Germany

Bernd’s is small, with just 10-20 girls working at any one time, however there are many good reasons why it’s popular with FKK connoisseurs.

There are strict rules in place for the ladies working at Bernd’s, including no upsells (except anal), women are not allowed to approach the men, and all girls must be fully naked with the exception of high heels.

Another incredible thing about FKK Club Bernd is that unlimited alcohol is included in your entrance fee. This is rarely the case with other FKK sauna clubs.

Schieferhof 28, 53773 Hennef (Lichtenberg), Germany

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Wellcum – Hohenthurn, Austria

Wellcum (Spa For Men) is a huge FKK Sauna Club in Austria.

With 50-90 girls gorgeous girls available each day, as young as 18, you will likely struggle to make a decision about who you want to spend time with. Entry is €90 but includes 2 alcoholic drinks and access to the incredible buffets.

It is worth mentioning that the ladies only walk around fully naked on certain days of the week, so if this is important to you make sure you check in advance of your trip.

There is a hotel attached to this FKK club, with rooms starting from just €77.

This FKK is easiest to get to by car as it is based off a busy motorway. The location is just 6 km from the Italian border and 20 km from Slovenian border.

Flussstrasse 1, 9601 Hohenthurn, Austria

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Wellcum is a large FKK brothel in Austria, surrounded by beautiful mountains and forest. Image from website.

Club Mondial – Cologne, Germany

Cologne is a very popular destination with business travellers and tourists, ensuring girls from around the world flock to Club Mondial to entertain visitors.

With entrance fees of just €40 and 50-100 ladies working per day, you really cannot complain.

It’s worth noting that Club Mondial doesn’t have an outside area unlike many clubs, but it has slot machines and electronic games to keep you occupied between sex sessions!

Hugo-Junkers-Str. 10, 50739 Köln, Germany

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September 24 2022

Walk up Sex Brothels – Guide to German Laufhaus

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If you are looking for cheap and easy sex in Germany, Austria or Switzerland, a walk-up sex brothel may be the answer to your prayers.

Yes, that’s right… what if you could simply walk into a building when you’re horny, browse available and willing girls (often in sexy lingerie), then enter their bedroom to have sex?! Amazing!

What is a Laufhaus?

A laufhaus is a type of brothel common in parts of Europe. It is a building with many small bedrooms, occupied by independent sex workers, and clients walk through the corridors to browse the available prostitutes, often signalled by an open door, before approaching them to make an offer.

The Laufhaus, literally meaning ‘running house’, is more commonly known as an Eros Center. These brothels are usually completely legal and are found within red light districts. Popular locations for these walk up bordellos include Vienna, Austria and Frankfurt, Germany.

Difference between a Brothel and Laufhaus?

The sex workers in a Laufhaus are completely independent and, in theory, keep 100% of the money they make from their services. They simply pay to rent the room within the Laufhaus. As the ladies are paying for rental, they can set their own prices or do whatever they want, including sleeping in the room if they choose.

A brothel is slightly different in that the sex workers usually pay a commission on their takings to the brothel management. The ladies may also be restricted by set prices and pre-determined services, and have to always be available for sex with clients during their shift.

What is it like inside an Eros Center?

Often in the heart of the red light district and surrounded by bars, nightclubs and casinos, you’ll find a number of walk-up bordellos. These buildings will be lit up red, especially the windows, and signs will make it known what’s inside… look out for ‘Girls, Girls, Girls’, ‘XXX’ or ‘Eros’.

The doors to these brothels will usually be wide open to indicate they’re open, but not always. Many Eros Centers are free admission and may not even be staffed, although some may charge a small fee of €5.

You will usually walk up a staircase, passing other potential clients, as you walk through the corridors on each floor to view the available girls. There is sometimes a whole floor dedicated to transgender prostitutes, which should be clearly sign-posted. Availability is usually demonstrated with an open door, or a green light above. Where a door is open, you’ll often find the ladies standing or sitting inside trying to get your attention and beckon you in.

* Read about my experience at Rotes Haus in Frankfurt, a top-rated walk-up brothel. *

Once you have viewed all the available girls over multiple floors it’s time to make a decision. Either leave, or go to your favorite girl’s room (and hope she’s not now busy). Smile and introduce yourself, then ask what her price is. Ensure you completely understand what is being offered for the quoted price, asking questions to make sure there is no miscommunication. If you are not comfortable, simply walk away, the girls are unlikely to leave their rooms to follow you.

If you decide to go ahead, enter the room and the door will be closed behind you. Pay the girl upfront, get undressed, put the condom on, and get into your first position. Enjoy!

The laufhaus process is very similar to the red light windows in Amsterdam, although the brothel is inside and you are only seen by other potential clients rather than tourists.

How much is sex in a laufhaus?

The price of sex in walk up brothels varies drastically depending on which country you visit, the laufhaus venue, location, and the sex worker.

It’s important to remember that the ladies working in an eros center are independent and self-employed, meaning they set their own rates.

Covered oral and standard sex can cost anything from €25 to €80 for 20-30 minutes. In my personal experience the average price in a German laufhaus is €50. These prices certainly makes this a very cheap method of obtaining sex, with a girl you like, in a safe and comfortable environment.

August 14 2022

Ultimate Guide to Prostitution

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Often described as the ‘World’s oldest profession’, the buying and selling of sex has been happening since the very beginning of time. Don’t believe me? There are historical records from circa 2400 BCE mentioning prostitution as an occupation in the Sumer civilization which emerged in the early Bronze Ages! Since then, prostitution has been a part of almost every society, in every single stage of history, in every corner of the world.

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What is prostitution?

Different types of prostitution

Why do people use prostitutes?

Why do people become prostitutes?

Why is prostitution a crime?

Where is prostitution legal?

Prostitution in Europe

Prostitution in USA

Prostitution in Asia

Prostitution in Africa

Prostitution in South America

Prostitution in the Middle East

Prostitution in Oceania

Where is prostitution common?

What is sex tourism?

Best country for sex tourism

What is prostitution?

Prostitution is the selling and buying of physical sexual intimacy. The term is most often used to encapsulate direct forms of sex work, such as penetrative and oral sex, but some people believe indirect sexual services such as erotic massages, lap dances and paid domination can also come under this umbrella term. A person who sells penetrative sex is known as a prostitute, or my also be refered to as a hooker, escort or sex worker.

What are the different types of prostitution?

There are many types of prostitution around the world, although the main three are listed in the table below, along with information about each type.

Type of Prostitution	Description of Prostitution Activity	Location of Prostitution Activity	Prostitute Synonyms	Prostitution Cost
Street	Client solicited in a public area.	Vehicle, Discreet public space	Hooker, Street Walker, Whore	$
Brothel	Client visits a permanent premises dedicated to providing sex.	Brothel	Prostitute	$$
Private	Client contacts sex worker by phone or online to arrange a meeting.	Private accommodation, Hotel	Escort, Call Girl	$$$

Why do people use prostitutes?

There’s a school of thought within many religions that sex should only be performed for the purpose of reproduction. Whilst there is some logic to this thinking, because without reproduction there would be no humanity, there is a slight problem… humans LOVE sex!

People find sex pleasurable due to the pudendal nerve, which can be found in the penis, cliterous, perineum and anus. When stimulated, this nerve sends signals to the brain, releasing both dopamine and oxytocin, chemicals which cause a flood of happy and pleasurable feelings. The human body has literally evolved to constantly desire sex.

Prostitution offers an easy way for people to find sexual pleasure from another human, without the strings attached of a relationship. There’s a variety of reasons someone may hire a prostitute: want to experience sex with different people, want to have an active sex life without committing to anyone, find it difficult to find sexual partners, are bored and looking for excitement…etc.

People who pay for sex are predominantly males, with relationship status not having influence. Although women do use paid sex services too, this is on a much smaller scale and often women will also look for paid romance and intimacy.

Why do people become prostitutes?

Just like there are many reasons people use prostitutes, there are are many reasons why people become prostitutes. However, the primary reason women sell sex is to make money.

In many parts of the world prostitution might be a means of survival, or it may be a chosen career choice with the desire to provide a higher-than-average income.

Street-based sex workers are often associated with using sex to maintain drug habits, whereas brothel workers are more likely to view sex as their primary income.

Private escorts are seen to be the higher-end of the sex industry, and with benefits such as high hourly pay, exotic travel opportunities and free gifts, these women or men may also be involved in prostitution for the experience, the excitement, and even for their love of sex.

Sadly there is a darker side to prostitution in the form of human trafficking, where people are forced to be prostitutes but often see little to no financial benefit. This abhorrent activity ruins lives and should be reported to the appropriate authorities when spotted.

Why is prostitution a crime?

The buying and selling of sexual services is often considered a controversial sexual behavior and one which is completely immoral. This is especially the view of those with conservative or religious views, believing that sex for money is a sign of society’s moral decay.

Despite this, there are an estimated 42 million prostitutes around the world. It is important to note that immoral activity does not automatically equate to criminal activity, and this is where there is much contention across the globe as to whether it should be a crime or not.

Prostitution has been made a crime in many parts of the world, not only because it is seen as immoral, but also because of the bad parts of the industry. For example, prostitution is often shrouded in drugs, violence, the subjugation of women, and child trafficking.

In other parts of the world, governments have either been extremely liberal and legalized prostitution in all forms, or have simply turned a blind eye where all parties involved are consenting. Those in favor of legalized prostitution argue that when regulated properly, legal prostitution decreases crime and increases public health, whilst also increasing tax revenue.

Using data from World Population Review, I’ve been able to decipher and put into the following table how many countries globally (out of 162) have made prostitution a crime as of 2022.

Legality of Prostitution	Number of Countries
Completely legal	22
Partially legal / Legal grey areas / Laws not enforced	65
Completely illegal	75

Where is prostitution legal?

There are 87 countries in the world where prostitution is either completely legal or has some aspects which is tolerated, meaning that for a good portion of the estimated 42 million prostitutes globally there isn’t the looming threat of imprisonment for their sex work. In almost all countries, prostitution of minors is illegal.

None of the information in this article should be considered legal advice and it is important to do your own up-to-date research before visiting any of these countries with the intention of participating in paid sexual activity.

Where is prostitution legal in Europe?

Western Europe is generally very liberal with relaxed views towards sex. It is a common political belief in Europe that the government should not interfere with private matters, especially where nobody is being hurt.

Several countries in Europe have made all aspects of sex work legal and regulated. In the Netherlands and Germany prostitution is completely legal. In these countries you will find legal brothels, including cheap walk-up brothels, in every major city and escorts can openly solicit for clients. Prostitutes have a recognised occupation, pay taxes on their income, and can claim state benefits. Prostitution is also legal in Switzerland, Austria, Hungary, Latvia and Greece.

Many European countries turn a blind eye to prostitution, sometimes only actively enforcing a no brothel or pimping law. The buying and selling of sex in these countries is not legal, but it is not illegal either. Prostitution is somewhat legal in Spain, France, Italy and Poland.

Prostitution is somewhat legal in the UK. However, there are caveats to this. Brothels (defined as multiple sex workers working from the same premises) are illegal, as is pimping and soliciting in public. As a general rule, buying and selling sex in England, Scotland or Wales is ok if it is done in private, is consensual, and without a third-party being involved. Prostitution is illegal in Northern Ireland.

Prostitution in Eastern Europe is illegal for the most part, however these countries either turn a blind eye or have weak enforcement. In Russia prostitution is illegal and is punishable by a fine. However, the fine is only 1,500 rubles ($24), which is often criticised as nothing more than a slap on the wrist. Prostitution is illegal in Ukraine and Georgia but is widespread and generally ignored by authorities.

Prostitution windows in Amsterdam Red Light District

Walk-up prostitution windows in Amsterdam’s Red Light District

Where is prostitution legal in the US?

For the most part, prostitution is illegal in the US. Prostitution laws in the United States are set by each state, but there is little political willpower to change this. In the majority of the US, prostitution is punishable and it is a crime to solicit, arrange or purchase sex from another person.

Cops in the US will often set up sting operations to catch Americans who are looking to use prostitutes, with hefty fines or even imprisonment if caught. These zero tolerance policies can be found everywhere, including in New York City where escorting is illegal.

There is an exception to the rule, where prostitution is legal across 10 counties in the US state of Nevada. Brothels are permitted in these counties and are subject to strict regulation and federal income taxes. Despite Nevada being the home to ‘Sin City’ with a lot of open temptation, prostitution is illegal in Las Vegas.

The rules in North America are no different, with prostitution being illegal in Canada.

Where is prostitution legal in Asia?

When people think of sex tourism their minds may instantly go to Asia. However, prostitution is technically illegal in many Asian countries including Thailand and the Philippines.

Prostitution in China is completely illegal, although Chinese authorities seem indecisive about how to categorise prostitutes, sometimes treating them as criminals and other times as citizens behaving with misconduct.

Japan has very interesting laws regarding sex work. Prostitution in Japan is illegal, although this is defined as vaginal intercourse. This loophole means you can pay for sex, so long as it is oral sex or anal sex. There are red light districts within Tokyo, and brothels are disguised as massage parlours or ‘soaplands’, where you pay for a massage and then if sex happens this was a legal spontaneous romantic activity between two consenting adults.

Whilst prostitution in Thailand and the Philippines is technically illegal, the government not only turns a blind eye but seems to actively encourage it, with many cities such as Bangkok, Pattaya and Manila having very busy and popular red light districts. Thailand is one of the top countries in the world for sex tourism and has been for decades, with little legal consequence to those who participate.

Prostitution in India is partially legal. You cannot openly solicit for sex in public, be seen actively partaking in prostitution, or operate or visit a brothel. As long as people are being private and both parties are consensual, Indian authorities seem to be accepting of it.

Sex workers wait for tourists in Bangkok Red Light District

Sex workers wait for tourists in Bangkok’s Red Light District

Where is prostitution legal in Africa?

The only country on the African continent where prostitution is both legal and regulated is Senegal. Despite this, some of the countries with the most prostitutes in the world are Nigeria, the Democratic Republic of Congo, Sierra Leone and Sudan.

Prostitution is partially legal in Ethiopia, with brothels illegal but this is not widley enforced. Prostitution in Kenya is a legal grey area, where it is not a criminal activity but you must not live off the earnings of sex work. Kenya is popular for sex tourism, especially for women looking to purchase sex and romance from men.

Where is prostitution legal in South America?

Sex work is legal in most of South America, with prostitution legal in Mexico, Columbia and Brazil.

Although South American countries have made prostitution legal and regulate their sex industry, there is a lot of prejuidice towards sex work and these countries use tolerance zones within cities to segregate this activity from the rest of society.

Where is prostitution legal in the Middle East?

Sex work is not accepted in Islamic faith, which is the main reason prostitution is strictly forbidden in many middle eastern countries.

As the Middle East becomes more westernised, attitudes towards sex work are softening. For example, in Saudi Arabia a punishment for prostitution used to be flogging, however this has since been abolished by order of the Saudi Supreme Court General Commission, and instead prostitutes only face limited jail time or fines.

There is no outright prohibition towards prostitution in Israel or Lebanon.

Where is prostitution legal in Oceania?

Prostitution is legal in Australia, with escort agencies and brothels allowed to operate, although sex businesses must be registered and are heaviliy regulated.

Prostitution is completely legal in New Zealand. It is legal to run a brothel, live off the proceeds of someone else’s prostitution, and solicit sex for money in public.

Where is prostitution most common?

It is extremely difficult to get accurate statistics of the sex industry, mostly because prostitution is either completely or partially illegal in so many places, and where prostitution is illegal the majority of prostitutes are not arrested.

Looking at data from a wide number of sources, including sex worker charities and the Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/Aids (2016), there is an estimated 40-42 million prostitutes in the world.

The graph below shows which countries have the most prostitutes.

Country	Est. Number of Prostitutes
Brazil	1,400,000
India	657,800
Nigeria	410,000
Congo	350,300
Columbia	244,400
Mexico	240,000
Sierra Leone	240,000
Pakistan	228,800
Indonesia	226,800
Sudan	212,500
Philippines	210,000

With 1.4 million, Brazil is estimated to have the highest number of prostitutes out of any country by a significant amount, followed by India, Nigeria, Democratic Republic of Congo, and Columbia.

What is sex tourism?

Sex tourism is the activity of travelling to a foreign country with the primary purpose of buying sex or engaging in sexual activity from prostitutes and sex workers.

The sex tourism industry is estimated to generate over $20 billion per year in revenues. The practice predominantly operates in countries where prostitution is legal, regulated or tolerated.

The darker side of sex tourism, which is why so many people oppose it, is tourists travelling to seek sex with children or exploit victims of modern day slavery.

Which country is best for sex travel?

The Netherlands is often touted as the best country for sex travel, mostly because it has completely legalized sex work and regulates it to ensure prostitutes practice safe sex, are of a certain legal age, and are clean of sexually transmitted infections. Without the negative stigma, tourists feel safe visiting cities like Amsterdam to experience sex with prostitutes.

Germany is also great for sex travel due to prostitution being legal and well regulated. You can find red light districts in every major city and have cheap sex in a laufhaus or experience the FKK sex clubs. Germany is generally considered safe, not overly expensive, and very welcoming to tourists.